Thank you Rapunzel! I do agree with everything you are saying. My parents are so dense, and just don't understand. I realized a long time ago, that things will never change. Thus why, I don't want to forgive, cause why forgive someone if they are just going to keep doing the same thing? Keep being emotionally abusive towards me. My brother is a narcissist for sure, he thinks he's so entitled, so if I were to forgive him it would just give him a big ego boost, and he would just think "Haha I have control! I win" Cause he's all about control. But thank you so much for the support and advice!