Everyone here was at one time a new comer who had to wait for their posts to show up. No one did this to you personally, I think it's quite a good idea to have our first posts checked. Before someone joins and starts posting hurtful things that can trigger someone , the mods can get an idea of who the person is and if they are a threat. We are a special group of people.

I hope you will choose to stick around because we are all friendly and helpful.