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Originally Posted by Trebyn
Do you know why you feel that way?
My father has always been the exact same as you are describing, except towards women. He can't handle having female co-workers, especially when they are of equal position or higher. His issues stem from growing up in a household with a very domineering mother who heavily favored his sisters, and from being stuck in the 1950's gender role mindset.
In the case of my father, he isn't at all interested in changing  But if you know why you feel the way you do, do you think you'd want to change those views?
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I don't know how this happened. It never mattered before a few yrs ago. I've always had issues with my father he's always been an abusive alcoholic rapist. But I've known that pretty much my whole life. The only thing that's changed in the past few yrs is he was finally arrested, charged, tried and then released after3months when it should have been 4yrs. I have no contact with him or my mother who chose him over me. It's probably best I don't try and oh to a male dr. I really don't want to freak out with him in the room, I'd probably punch him quite a bit