Weird situation, I asked my t to suggest me another t to talk about boundaries etc and he suggested me one but he's my mother's ex t. I told this to my t but he thinks it's normal and good that he knows my mother. I don't know is it really good? Any ideas?
He also was my t's teacher and I know his opinion about boundaries because he was my mother's t and he thought that even shaking hands is boundary crossing. Maybe my t wants me to talk to some who is fanatic about boundaries and not touching clients. It's not fair.

Also he suggested me to see his ex classmate as my psychiatrist, I had seen her one time and I didn't like her esspecially when I know she was my t's classmate.

He said he can talk to someone about me and my problems and how to help me, it was nice but I don't know why I said no.

At the end he wrote down two ts names and told me I can choose where to go.

For those who hope I'm leaving my t- no I'm not leaving.