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Originally Posted by Faking sane
Do you think it could be something she's doing to try to desensitize you to sexual terms... To normalize taking about x for you? Do you have some abuse in your past that you haven't talked about yet and she's just trying to trigger you to get it out there? That's what frustrates me about therapy. You never know what their motives are in the moment. How about just ask her about it outright. In the hallway where the receptionist can hear.
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Thanks for this, Faking sane. After my session today I think I know what was happening, she said she feels that we work best with this level of candour. And she said she has thought I was edging towards romantic transference for a while, so I think she was trying to make it clear that there was room for those feelings, that she wasn't going to freak out.
Now that my recent thunderbolt of love for her is out in the open, I expect she will be more careful about stories that refer to her boobs etc, in case I should be overcome by lust and attempt to ravish her in the office
