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Old Apr 04, 2014, 06:52 AM
Anonymous100110
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Your T is a big girl and wouldn't have made this offer if it was going to hurt her. Accept that kindness and don't turn it in to yet another stressor/crisis in your life. You have enough real ones in your life already, so don't manufacture another one out of your head when it isn't one in reality. Your T isn't stressed about doing this for you. For some reason, accepting kindness from others makes you want to run, but that would be counterproductive and create more problems. Do what feels counter to your reflexive response right now. Accept the kindness. Deal with the concrete stressors of moving and dental bills. Refuse to turn the kindness of another person into a problem (it really isn't one; it is a blessing). Continue to see your T regularly because moving will naturally be a time of added strain. You can do this. You don't have to talk yourself into a crisis over this. You can make a different choice.
Thanks for this!
Aloneandafraid