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Originally Posted by Steve42
I just want to stop thinking about them having sex on that day. Picturing it in my mind all the time drives me crazy. It could be that fact that I caused it, like has been said above. I really feel better after reading the replies. Thank you
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I maintain that therapy would be a great starting point for you then. People can do a lot on their own - sort things out, deal with things, even forget things when necessary. But this sounds like you are going to need some help to get past it. It's not like you can "get rid of" the person that reminds you of the event - she's the woman you want to spend time with!
I'm happy to hear that you've been feeling better getting this out and reading responses. Sometimes that's all you need. But if you do need more, there are definitely options.
All the best...