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Originally Posted by Lauliza
It is fine to use recommendations, but from what I know it's not fine to use the same T your mom used. The T could have preconceived ideas about you already based on what he knows about your family. It's a conflict of interest. You need a T for advice on this situation from an objective point of view.
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On one hand you are right but on other hand sometimes it seems that it's good that he knows all about my mother, she's not seeing him anymore for many years.