It may sound abnormal but is not for me - Post on the dating site everything in honest terms. You have to be real and honest to get the same in life ( I say that but it has not worked for me 100% but I know it's still true ).
I am a fetishist and it has caused more trouble for me than anything. It is special, it is me and makes me unique but to many woman it is not "normal."
I wish you luck and maybe in time there will be an agoraphobic girl who has issues going all over the place in public and the two of you will have a reason to both get out, meet and talk. Maybe things will work out and maybe not.