When I learned to trust that she meant what she said, "Lean on me 24/7," only then was I able to move ahead. I had to learn to fully trust her. I needed her a hell of a lot with extra sessions, emails, and phone calls. This was encouraged by her. She taught me that my needs and wants were okay. She gave me what I wanted and needed as long as she was available, still taking care of herself, and moved me forward to healing. I now have the reins, and am doing quite well, and have a happiness and a peace I had never known.