I seem to contradict myself a lot but sometimes I think he has a mental disorder. He is really sweet but when he doesn't want to talk about something or hear what I have to say, he tells me off or calls me names, like today. After he hung up on me, he came home, acted like nothing happened, didn't apologize for hanging up on me and when I tried to talk to him about his behavior, he told me that I yelled first. I KNOW I didn't yell, but I end up feeling like I'm crazy. It seems that he lies to himself and twists reality so I did something wrong first. Therefore, in his head, his behavior was ok. Then, he accused me of not wanting this marriage to work b/c I lose it every time he tells me I did something that I KNOW I didn't do. I don't know what to do-I left the house and went to the gym to cool off, but now I'm back and he's just playing his video games and ignoring me. I'm getting really sick of being the better person. Thanks for reading my post and please be honest about what you think. I need that, even if it turns out that I'm the idiot here.