I've found myself bursting into tears for no real reason lately so I've been giving some thought to these salty horrors.
I've never really been much of a crier-I learned pretty early on that very few people care and even fewer are worth it- which is why these sudden 'random' emotional events are so disturbing.
Anyways, my thoughts are that tears themselves aren't necessarily a sign of weakness but they do sign post a weakness.
Like, to cry is a healthy emotional out let but by crying you allow other people to see that what ever has made you cry is a weakness. Something to be used against you.
So crying is okay. Letting other people see you cry is dangerous?
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