I am in this situation and I am not sure if I should be paying a larger percentage of the meals and outings that we partake in. She is 11 years older and makes about twice as much.

Currently I pay about 70% of the time, but I am being pressured into allowing her to pay.

I am thinking of basing the payments only on the proportion of money that each of us makes compared to the other.

Therefore I would be paying about 33% of the time.

Do you feel that this is acceptable for a male?