'That is why T's shouldn't leave their clients "hanging" all week wondering wth is going on. An explanation could save me a lot of grief'.

Yes, that is the thing isn't it? These hurtful things could be quickly put back in proportion if T's didn't think it was ok to leave you in torture until the next session.

Stay as strong as you can until your T can reassure you again. She cares about you or she would not be seeing you.

I really like Starry-nights little motto: Don't put your key to happiness in someone else's pocket.