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Old Apr 05, 2014, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Idiot17 View Post
this is a ramble.

I lost. I had a deadline at work and i failed to meet it. This discrepancy can cost us a million. I finally failed at work as well, i was wondering if it would ever happen. When. I don't know where to go from here, my co-workers are picking up on a lot suddenly. Seeing me as i am outside of the business world. I feel like such a failure, up to know l was a failure everywhere but work. Now i officially failed every area of life. I'm ready to give up.
Don't let this belief take hold, I know it too well. I was always ok at work------...then... But please remember EVERYONE misses a deadline, makes a mistake, companies are built to sustain this---you are likely projecting your feelings about yourself onto others---sure, it is lousy, it is a set-back, but it is NOT the end of the world... & you may be letting a bit more of yourself "show" ---at work---sometimes the working through things, the healing gets messy because we no longer have our neat little boxes to put things in (work is here, home is there, doing this task is over in that bin), to keep the compartmentalizing intact.
Remember that it can lead to letting some of your good business skills into other parts of your life...
Hang in there.
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