How do you know when regularly discussing life stressers becomes whining?? I noticed the discussed repeatedly bringing up work. T and I discuss my work EVERY time I see her. She knows I work at a very stressful job that I love. The turnover rate for my position is 2 1/2 years I have worked there for almost 7 years. I love the work but working in psych and in a hospital is very stressful. We have also discussed me getting a different job but she agrees that finding a job in this area right now is difficult never mind one that offers the flexibility and rewards that I have now.