it sounds like you know the truth but you are afraid to hear it from him. you are not likely to get him to admit it. you need to make a decision of whether you still want to be connected to this man or whether you want to get out and make a life of your own. you obviously can do it on your own. you have been. the question is, what is holding you back? welcome to psych central. you will find that we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome