Help! I don't even know what to think. My son is 15, and has had one relationship with a girl a few months ago. He often talked about how much he enjoyed sitting close to her and how beautiful she was. They never kissed. He said they broke up b/c she wasn't ready for a relationship yet.
Five days ago he told me he thinks he is gay. I'm so in shock. I never saw it in him. Can he be sure at this age? Can it be he is making a choice/influenced by others/unsure? He says he has only known for a few weeks. Is this normal? I was under the impression that most people always knew their sexual orientation.
I told him that I love him and will stand by him no matter what, but I'm having a hard time with all the emotions this week. I'm feeling very confused. He seems to think I should be happy about it, but really, I can't imagine any parent would want this for their child. It looks like a hard life.
Any thoughts, or help would be appreciated. Thanks so much!