I don't believe there is necessarily one person destined for every person . I used to, but then, how do you explain so many divorces and people who can't find the "one" ? I believe people often mistake lust for love, and get overly caught up in feelings. Romantic love isn't just a feeling, it has to be an action, too.
Several years ago, I almost married a person who would have been completely wrong for me ( IMO wrong for anyone ...lol) luckily I woke up in time.
I do feel that my husband and I were meant for each other, because time has proven that . He puts up with all my craziness, and I'm "teaching " him stuff .