Thanks to all of you! For me I see T as an example of a mother figure that is positive and affirming - one to teach me that what I recieved as a child was not good enough and what is good enough etc.
T has strong boundaries, which I respect as I work in a similar field and have the same with people I work with.
T has never mentioned counter transference, nor stated in anyway she looks at me like a daughter - it's just little things I have picked up.
And it feels nice, nice to know someone cares.