My wife says that for the last 2-3 years she has not been attracted to me sexually. She says that other guys still are attractive to her and that sex with me is weird now. That she loves me as a brother or best friend rather than a husband. We have been married for 6 months and together for 4 years and she just now shares this with me. Communication has always been a slight struggle but we got through it. Idk if we'll get through this. We spent all night in a hotel to remove stress from the equation and to talk. She said sex is not painful it's not a performance issue it's attraction. She also stated that the smallest little things I do can annoy and bother her. We both knew there were issues but they were minor until now, nothing to fret about. We discussed going to the doc for hormone and chemical tests, and talking to a councilor is there anything else to try to do?