Hi Nikki, (Monique is a beautiful name)

Thanks for the offer of chatting, are you sure? I'm finding it difficult to explain why I need to make contact and talk to people within this community. It's lead to a difficult couple of days, do you have any problems getting yourself across to others? Your partner? Maybe for me it's not yet coming to terms with the whole idea of having BPD. Relationships just don't go smoothly how ever hard I try.

So, easy to find you now, what was it? Across the river and up the hill? We're easy, just stick a pin in a map in the very centre of England and you'll get Nottingham. That is if you can see through the cloud and rain!!!

Being accepted has always been very difficult for me, three years sounds a long time! Not sure I'll see it through that long. Hope we can chat again.

Paul