(( mouse ))
But it is just like you named the thread... A difference of opinion. No judgement. No right or wrong. Just different.
Remember that you are indluded in that. You and she were... strangers... in the beginning. Unfamiliar. But you must have thought she was nice so you got to know her, and she got to know you. Now you have a mutually caring relationship.
It could be a fun discussion to have with her; "How do you see strangers as nice? How does that work?" Sounds like a lot to explore there!
You are learning mouse. We all our. Even your T is. Be kind to you like you are to all of us!