(((Lucky Wishbone))) I am very very sorry for what you are going through. Remember you can vent here anytime. I can't answer what is happening to you but I can say that my depression does this to me. I hate myself for these brain farts. It drives me crazy to be so confused. The heavier my depression the more confused I become. It really is hard not to be able to make up my mind or remember things.
How you are being treated is awful. I am so sorry. Theses kinds of things also feed my depression. Is there anywhere you can go for help? Many people do not understand depression or how it makes us feel. I believe a counselor would be able to help you and your family.