I have always been sensitive to others feelings and actions. I get scared thinking that if i leave he will go back to prison or kill himself. I just dont know how to get past this scared, guilt, worry mode. i would feel the same about others if they said they were going to hurt themselves. I am going to see a mental health counselor on monday. i am hoping he can help me sort things out. My husband was always a guy with low sefl esteem even before we got married. He is estranged from his family and says that i am all he heas. Gads it just makes me angry how he acts.
I was sick one weekend and told him i couldnt take him on leave. The next day i too him out he said the only thing keeping him from telling me to come get him anyways when i was sick is the fact that he didnt want to say to take him to my house over the phone.
than one weekend i workd 7 days straight and would have another week with no days off. I was to tired and angry that he didnt even have sympthy. He still insisted on going out the whole leave and weekend.
I have told him how i feel about having to spend more hours on the weekend with him now, but he just gets all pissy and saying that i wont have any personal time when he moves back. i am so stressed and cry all the time.

I do thank you for al the thoughts. I hope there are others with thought on what they would suggest or do in my situation.