There are people who use and people who are to be used. That is all there is.

Really??? Its so sad that you believe nobody on Earth has the intelectual or emotional capacity to regard eachother as anything more.

But let's just say for a moment you're opinion is factual, that we are all 1 dimensional and lacking any kind of depth:
The relationship you described is mutually beneficial, as both parties are having their needs met... Who's to say that's not love??

On the same note, my bf must be pretty stupid to stick around for so many years just to use me.
I mean I'm bloody high maintainence with all this borderline, bipolar bullshyt I bring to the table
He could be putting in much less effort and have much less drama in his life if he would only decide to go use someone else instead of me...

To believe that more exists will only lead to more hurt in the end.