I find myself wondering what motivates her to say that she loves him and be helpful with him. Does she feel a need for his attention? Approval? I think that there is possibly more to her behavior than just openess. I could be wrong of course because some of my addiction counseling coursing makes me a bit suspicious at times. Besides, I remembering wanting to please my former T. I felt like she was a mother figure. I never told her about it either. My current T has heard about some of my transferance on her.