I've been re-reading Lott's In Session, and underlining a lot of passages that I've found interesting and feel pertains to my relationship with my T. I have no clue if he's heard of the book or not, but I've thought about lending him my copy so he can read what I've underlined and possibly get a better understanding where I'm coming from, especially regarding transference.

Would this be a good idea? What if he says no thanks?

“I’m good at loving books. I’m good at loving soft bed sheets. I’m good at loving coffees and teas. I am good at loving things that can’t love me back, that don’t have the power to leave. And maybe, that’s why I love them.”