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There is a lot of different chemicals the brain is producing with lust, love and attachment. Knowing the science does not have to make it less beautiful. Google Helen Fisher. I've had a lot of pain letting go. That person may add to your life but when the bad outweighs the good - either get help in keeping it together or work on letting it go. It's a process and very painful...but it does get better. I'm always working to enjoy the here and now so I do not miss out on a great experience!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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