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Originally Posted by Freewilled
Mine has talked about it but rather vaguely after I pretty much would not let my concerns rest to get some understanding of wtf was going on. For me, if my T is having issues with the way I'm consistently being in session, I feel like I need to know. If I'm acting in a manner that causes issues for my T, he is more likely to terminate. Yeah - he should be able to handle it, but the way I see it, he is human. I did remind him of that fact too....
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Mine mentioned something vaguely to me too. My husband and I saw him together when we were considering couples therapy. Afterward my husband felt like my T (psychiatrist really) had it in for him and had attitude. So I told my pdoc at the next session and at first he said no way, that he goes out of his way not to show any bias and even is harder on his patients. The he was quiet and said "but youre probably different". We didn't discuss it any further. Maybe we should have discussed this through, but it didnt feel right to pry, and I don't know that he would have shared too much anyway. He is divorced so I figured something in my situation was affecting him. We've just had an unspoken dynamic in the years since. That may not work for everyone, but for me I think the unspoken is all that's needed.