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Originally Posted by BeteNoire
It's his birthday today. *Sigh*
I think though for the most part I've got this under control. Without him there to keep the wounds open I can at least clamp down on the emotions.
The thing that really keeps bothering me though is in our last argument.
He very deliberately baited me into cutting contact. Every time he responded to what I had to say he would end with "you have the power to make it go away" or something similar.
WHY!? Why wouldn't he do it himself? Was it really just so he could take the high ground like he suggested or was there something more?
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it sounds like he is playing mind games with you, little comments like "you have the power to make it go away" he's saying that because he knows you won't do that. i had an ex that used to play the same kind of games with me, she knew i was hooked and couldn't leave her alone, so she used that to her advantage every chance she got. it's awful, when they do this. once they know they got you hooked all these silly little games begin, the fact that he said he is a mental terrorist says it all right there, hopefully you can hold it together today i know it's gonna be hard, hang in there and good luck
