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Originally Posted by Mactastic
I would gently advise against asking your T for a hug. I think it will leave you wanting more I think you're right in your hunch that it will raise more feelings in you. Have you considered talking about why you want one from her?
I'm sorry you're feeling lonely and like you need to be held. I genuinely understand how that feels.  |
Thank you. I like the idea of talking to her about why I want one, but then she might think that I'm expecting one and that the only reason I brought it up would be because I was fishing for contact. When in fact I actually do like your idea of just discussing it.
I've decided I'm not going to straight up ask her for one, but if she ever offers I'm not going to hesitate to accept. We sit so close in front of each other in her small office that the desire to just reach out and hold her can be overwhelming. Especially when she leans forward or smiles. She's so close, yet I can't be with her.