[QUOTE=monalisasmile;3678461]Your inner child craved her love and attention
I think this is a normal want for some of us in therapy and it hurts when we don't get what we need!
I hope you can see now that it wasn't your fault, none of it was and our ts are always in charge of ethics and boundaries but sometimes their vision gets clouded and we suffer

Yes, that is very true. I've had a similarly painful experience with a therapist. I'm glad I can see things for what they are now.

(I'm sure there are far more good Ts out there than not so good. Sometimes its a question of not a very good fit or a T doesn't have the right 'method' for a particular client but keeps them anyway.)