I dont know if you remember, but many months ago, I developed a crush on my male ptsd group t, while I was with t2, and she called it transference. She yanked me out of group that week after I told her my feelings for him, although I told her, I never wanted the intimate part to occur.

My group t wanted to have a session with my old t and her, but then she changed her mind, saying it was not in my best interest.

For months the feelings subsided, but now, they are coming back. I see him every week, we say hello, he asks how I am. I have never crossed a boundary. The check in room, before I go into the waiting room is where he has his group.

Last Wednesday, he said hi, as usual, and I asked if I could ask him a question. He said, sure, but briefly and from a distance !!!!!!!! So I got extremely embarrassed, I told him that it was not necessary, that I never crossed any boundaries.

He said, he knew that, but he wanted to be professional. I said all I wanted was closure to this whole transference thing, but I just got it, thank you.

I told my t, she said it should have been dealt with a while ago, and she will take care of it, but now I hate the guy.