It is poorly written and could be clearer.
Basically what the guy is saying (in a convoluted way) is that every feeling has an A, B, and C tied to it.
A is the action
C is the FEELING that we get from that action
And B is between - it is the belief that creates that feeling.
So, say that your boyfriend doesn't call you. The "C" is how you FEEL.
A = Boyfriend not calling
C = I am very upset because boyfriend didn't call?
Why? Because some belief is causing me to feel that. If I believe that boyfriend SHOULD call every day at 7 pm, I will be hurt.
An alternative is:
A- Boyfriend doesn't call
C - I feel fine about it
Well, that's because there's a different B in between.
Does that make better sense?
I think that his writing is not clear.
But I think the concept is interesting. Basically, real psychotherapy, according to this guy, means that you are exploring a persons beliefs, and that actions or feelings may change as a result.
Anyway, PuzzleBug, it has nothing to do with being smart. Good writing should be easy to follow.
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