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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
I do not want to ask for a hug. It is like asking for a gift.....it's loses its meaning when asked for. If a T is going to hug me it needs to come from him on his own because he wants to, because he was moved in someway to do so. Then it would have great meaning and healing power.
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Wow. I dont want my t thinking he can read my mind, or projecting his needs on me. This is a very passive stance in life. You might want to look into assertiveness training. My dad taught me to always say no when offered anything, that that was being polite. That did not serve me well.