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Originally Posted by Lamplighter
I have never yet met a therapist who is even remotely willing to be involved to that degree  . I'd give an awful lot to find a T who was willing to guide me and give me options and take control of the sessions. Be a stronger wiser other in other words. Don't exist in my experience.
Monalise I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with Ts who tried to control you, but it sounds like you've learnt from that and are stronger and wiser yourself now  |
A therapist can't be that involved unless you let them and this my lesson here, to stop giving them all my power!
I am in charge of my life not them.
I think there is some weird dynamic goes on with me and female therapists. I want someone to rescue me and their rescuer part is activated, only it goes into overload and it ends up as control not rescue and neither is any good for me!
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