This is something I'm really wondering about: If I'm involved in a relationship and at some point I stop finding my partner sexually attractive -- at least for me, I'm never able to go back to finding him sexually attractive again. Am I alone in this? How can you find someone attractive once you've stopped finding them that way? I don't mean to say that I've immediately ended relationships once I ceased to find the person attractive, but at that point I do sort of think of it as doomed.

Someone I know was complaining that she was no longer physically attracted to her husband. I really didn't know what to say. I didn't want to say "and you never will be again," but that's what I was thinking.

How on earth could you recreate being attracted to someone? Is it possible?

Sidony