Well yes that's true. I wonder if it's because I've specifically said I wouldn't consummate anything with him even given the chance? I'm happily married and a bad liar . And, maybe I have downplayed my physical attraction to him since I've decided it's not relevant... Haha. If we hugged longer than a second it might get burning hot, I'm not sure, as it is though I am so slow emotionally by the time I process that I'm about to touch him the hug is over. Hugs aren't normally sexual to me though, I think if we were hugging and his hands started moving around, I would be in more trouble.