I guess it depends on what attracts you in the first place? If it's their lean muscle mass and they get older and gain weight :-) that would be hard to get back. Can you say what about them stopped the physical attraction?

For me, I'd be wondering if there was something going on with myself that I could change. I just plain enjoy being with my husband, kissing the top of his bald head :-) when he's working at his computer, rubbing his broad back, etc. Being sensual with him helps me find him attractive. He's an available kind of guy, "there" in all my moods and ups and downs.

I guess I'm not sure, Sidony, exactly what you mean by "attracted" that it goes away. My feelings reside in me, it's not something the other person does? I would look and see how/why I had "changed." I know when I get angry or fearful, etc. my sexual feelings and how I feel about a person/my husband can change. But I don't look for any one feeling and working on the whole relationship and/or "faking" sexual interest or attraction, like other emotions, can rekindle it for me.