Dear T and Pdoc,
Please understand how difficult this decision is. You are asking me to risk everything. I know you're both right, but I don't want to go. And with my injury, who is going to help me? Maybe if I wasn't injured, it would be easier. But who is going to help me wash my hair? Get dressed? How will I do my share of chores. Of course you are right, but I am terrified. Why can't you just make the decision for me