I guess it is a product of what's happening in the relationship. If I get unsure about whether it's right for me, I stop finding my partner attractive. It doesn't have that much to do with the way he looks (I mean, I like attractive guys of course but there's much more to it than that). Suddenly I go from wanting him physically to finding myself feeling repulsed at the thought of being with him. It's weird because sometimes I'm still hoping to make the relationship work. But sex becomes very undesirable for me and I don't know how to rekindle it. Maybe if I faked it for a long time it would come back, but I kind of doubt it. I wonder if losing physical attractedness is just a sign for me that things will never work. I don't know.

Sidony