Perna, Thanks for sharing your "work". You know I forgot I had a workman here recently fitting a new heating system. We got along so well that we arranged to go out with him and his partner.

I'd forgotten about that. BUT having said this, I see know that my thinking is wonky concerning T and her workman. Unyet it feels as if the feelings belong with this T situation. I guess they don't but T is gonna be the one that has to sort this out for me. i still have this need to direct my anger at her.

Watch this space :-(