I have never heard of that. Of course I have just been looking more into BPD and my symptoms. I have a 8 year old andI can't relate either. I struggle being a mom but it's more my own issues and struggles with my emotions. Nothing like in the podcast. And what you describe about yourself...that is me also. Nothing that the person described in the podcast. Not sure if I helped but I really think she was guessing about her mother.