Hi Twisted. You and your wife are at such a young age to feel this demoralized. I'm so sorry. The counseling might help you both to find what is at the root of the problem. I think your wife has some kind of problem that she is not facing. Maybe she did marry you just out of fear of being alone. There has got to be a reason why her family tend to side with you. They must see something wrong in her outlook that she does not recognize. As young as you both are, it's unlikely that there is anything wrong with your hormones. I hope the counseling helps.