We both have divorce lawyers and I don't have a daughter. We don't have any kids. Actually, he must have done some thinking because he is now willing to go to counseling and we had a long conversation about the fight that we had. He just seems to be upset with himself about his financial situation. My therapist says as long as I have doubts, I should not make any big decisions that I am not sure about and that I should concentrate on me and what makes me happy and try to keep my relationship problems a little more private when it comes to my family and friends. Thanks for responding.