Oh wow that its clearly a load of crap! I have two step daughters and although they are not my natural children despite it getting quite stressful at times all I want for them is happiness and to grow up healthy! My mother was critical and such a liar but was not bpd. It sounds like the only mental illness that mother they were talking about had was ***** syndrome! I sooo wish they wouldn't go on like all bpd people are assholes, it just adds to the pile of stigma out there!