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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
I do not need assertiveness training.....I am very assertive. I am not the needy one here who needs a hug. I also feel I should not have to ask for a hug. Something like that should be "natural" and not forced or given it out of obligation or guilt or doing it so there are no hard feelings. Just saying.
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MoxieDoxie, is it at all possible for you to respond to Hankster's remark on how you lack assertiveness without belittling me and my problems in the process? I'm not the one who offended you.
I don't care for terms like NEEDY. We're all in therapy here. We're all in need of something. Including you. I read that you suffer from Bulimia. How would you like it if I belittled your eating disorder? I know of a George Carlin clip that would probably do the trick.
For the record, I have no one in my life. NO ONE. No family. No friends. No one. Just my pet. So yeah, there are times when I see my therapist that I want a hug. I guess I'm a needy clingy bastard. I've been kicked around in life enough as it is without having to come on here and get the same treatment.