Sorry just saw your comment come up s4ndm4n2006. I do agree that it is a balance but I do care about what he does and things like that, that is why I ask questions because I want to get to know them better. I get that I should probably hold off and be patient on that part as it might make him feel uncomfortable though. I try to talk about mutual topics etc. but there is only so long you talk about a subject especially when he really isn't saying anything back... I know he loves me though he just never has been the type to open up to anyone or talk..