I've had almost two years of regular physiotherapy and a bunch of chiropractic sessions. There aren't too mainly options for treatments. I do exercise, many walking, Tai Chi, swimming. I'm 5'11" and 188 lbs, so ever so slightly overweight. High impact activities are becoming difficult with the leg/foot numbness and weakness.

As for your comments on the sex...well I was bisexual before marriage, bisexual during marriage, bisexual before the injury, bisexual after the injury and bisexual before and after the loss of sensation. Before the injury I have a decent sex life, and even after the injury. Only when I lost the sensation did things change.

You see once it became more difficult/impossible to orgasm, I've had to compensate by increasing my erotic thoughts/fantasies. I've gone from masturbating to normal husband/wife penetrative sex to fantasies of M2M sex, MMF threesomes, public, sissy/submissive acts. I've also bought my own sex toys so I can perform these acts on myself in private.

The need to cope and deal with the loss of feeling has driven me to these alternative sexual activities. It just so happens that these are partly based I real life experiences I had and enjoyed. I love my spouse and have been faithful for almost 20 years. Life is more than sex, and I not about to leave my wife for some hot and pleasurable gay sex.

I recognize that your response is rather stereotypical WRT bisexuals, but I made a choice when I married her and I continue to honour that choice. If I'd made the choice all those years ago to marry another guy, I'd honour that choice as well.

I really don't believe that my sexual preferences are a causal factor in the dysfunction, though I am willing to accept that they are a factor in how I have and will cope with my problem.